Love & Marriage need couples to go far…
Especially as Love & Marriage come with "Side-Effects" just like a recent Bollywood movie advocated!
I can go far for my love.
For love I can Forgive him or Say Sorry even when he is in the wrong...
This is a strategy that even a latest movie suggests!
"Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit." -Peter Ustinov
For love I can Lose.
On a lifestyle magazine cover, I read the catchy title of an article – “To Succeed In Marriage Learn to Lose.”
I feel I win if I lose in love.
It is a win-win situation if & when my partner also upholds the same spirit & wants to lose, so that we both can win!
Doesn’t matter who loses as long as our team wins!
For love I can Win.
I put in extra effort & my best to win…
For love I can patiently Wait…
Like the Hindi Film song goes- “Hum Intezaar Karenge Tera Qayamat Tak, Khuda Kare Ke Qayamat Ho Aur Tu Aaye” (I will wait for you till the end, God willing you’ll come at the end.)
For love I can learn new things
For love I can provide conditions necessary for love to grow & thrive
For love I can put life in my days
"Don't count the days, make the days count." -Muhammad Ali
For love I can magnify on similarities
"When differences are exaggerated, the distance between us becomes greater. Magnify similarities to bring people closer together."
For love I can go to the Kitchen!
Prepare his favorite dishes or re-prepare the dishes if they don’t turn out right the first time!
For love I can go to the Local Market or Super Market
Do all the veggies and grocery shopping and carry those heavy bags and save his time!
For love I can take sick-leave from office though I am not sick!
When I first joined work after marriage, my hubby was away in the USA, while I was in Mumbai. He came to Mumbai after 1 month, 17 days & 5 hours and we both took sick-leaves!
For love I can embark on any adventure & sacrifice…
If we set out exploring together, I can gladly sacrifice anything I love or myself!
Like the lyrics of a Hindi film song from Bobby goes-
“Hum Tum Ek Jungle Mein Gujrein, Aur Sher Aa Jaye…
Sher Se Main Kahoon Tumko Chhod De, Mujhe Kha Jaye…”
(We both are passing through a jungle, and a lion comes…
I ask the lion to leave you, and eat me up…)
For love I can Switch off/hide his cellphone & laptop!
I plan to do this for our next holiday!
For love I can encourage him to leave office on time so that we spend more time together!
"Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend." - Theophrastus
I can keep in shape & be healthy!
Love needs that we be fit and in good health for our loved one.
I can follow my heart!
I can go beyond death...
I can go for another rebirth/reincarnation!
Lastly, I can go all across the world!
I can climb the Eiffel Tower in Paris & experience the City of Love & Romance!
I can go to Ellis Island, New York and pose with him at the Statue of Liberty!
I can visit the London Eye & have eyes only for him!
Wanna go far & get close!